Get me out of here! Please

All of us periodically suffer from the myth of the greener grass. Haven’t there been times in your life when you thought things looked better on the other side of the fence? In your drive to succeed, haven’t you dreamed of a field with less hardship and more rewards? Maybe in the face of some of your marital struggles you think life would be better if you had a different husband or wife. Perhaps there have been occasions when you’ve climbed over a fence without looking up and getting God’s approval. Continue reading

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An Old Friend Fell

I had an experience last week that got me thinking about how easy it is
for us to take people for granted and assume they’ll
always be
around. And then one day, they suddenly and unexpectedly,
are gone. On
December 20, 2001 I was with my dad at 5:01 am when he took his last breath.
While he was 87 I thought he would live longer. I took him to the hospital and
the next day he died. The story you’ll read is about a
tree but it’s
loss got me thinking about things more important than
trees. I know
this is a longer email than I normally send, but I hope
it will give
you something to think about
.

I looked out my window the other day and noticed that a
giant tree had fallen to the ground. At one time the old growth tree had
towered over 150-feet into the air. It was bigger at the base than two men with
outstretched arms could reach around. Decades ago its top had been hit by
lightning and snapped off, leaving a snaggle tooth tip that pointed to the
heavens.

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The Fly in Paterno’s Perfume

Few men have fallen as far and as fast as Joe Paterno. I suspect that’s because few men have risen to the heights he achieved. If you include his years as an assistant at Penn State he coached there for 62 years. He holds the record for most victories by a FBS (Football Bowl Subdivision) coach with 409 and is the only FBS coach to reach 400 victories. He coached five undefeated teams, won two national championships and in 2007 was inducted into the College Football Hall of Fame. Continue reading

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A View of Death

While speaking at the commencement exercise at Stanford University on June 12, 2005, Steve Jobs said this: Continue reading

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Tapping Blue Jays

Just the other day, while I was working in my home office, there
was a blue jay on my roof, banging away on an unshelled peanut he’d taken from
the bird feeder on the back deck. It was the sort of tapping that can’t be
ignored, especially if you know the damage a jay’s beak can do to a wood-shake
roof. I had to get up from my desk and scare the bird away. Continue reading

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A Spiritual Experiment

I got the idea for The Jesus Experiment several years ago while writing a book based on the leadership style of Jesus. After completing the manuscript, I knew I had overlooked something significant. All of my research hadn’t turned up what I sensed was the most important piece of the puzzle. Continue reading

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God is approachable

I’ve been reading through the Bible and realize anew why so many people think God is as unapproachable as King Kong. Just check out the story of Moses and the terrified Israelites at Mt. Sinai when God revealed himself with, “thunder and lightning flashes, and a thick cloud upon the mountain and a very loud trumpet sound, so that all the people in the camp trembled” (Exodus 19:16). The God who creates and controls such powerful physical forces as thunder, lightning and clouds doesn’t seem too welcoming.  Continue reading

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The Value of Solitude

As the October release of my new book, The Jesus Experiment, draws near I want to give you a sneak peek. Continue reading

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How To Build Momentum

If you’re trying to bring a vision into reality the first part is the hardest. Why? Because you’ve got to overcome inertia in order to build momentum.  Continue reading

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Do This to Save Your Marriage

I’m not sure what’s going on but lately it seems more of my friends are either getting a divorce or thinking about it. I realize there is no single cure for a failing marriage but as I look back on my almost forty years of marriage I recall an early lesson that helped Cindy and me cut off relational problems before they got too big to control. We had only been married a year or so when we identified what I labeled the “I don’t want to feeling.” It’s what we felt when the selfishness monster pleaded with us to disregard the other person. Of course, recognizing the presence of the creature doesn’t mean he’ll graciously leave, especially in areas where he’s established control. But he can be bridled, led to a cage, and deprived of the freedom to roam around our hearts destroying our marriage. Here’s how.
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